She LikesYou. Stop Trying To Pick Her Up!

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She likes you, stop trying to pick her up

Gregg, I met this girl after lots of effort, I went out on two dates then I started to lose her. I thought I did everything right but she flaked. This seems to happen to me more often than it should. I seem to have a closing issue? Your thoughts please. -Chris
This is a common mistake I see with guys. They get the girl out and they continue to "try to pick her up". You’ve already picked her up. She likes you cause she is out with you. Stop the progression of picking her up and move into the next gaming phase of taking it to another level.
She flakes because she is confused in your intentions.
Women want a guy that moves forward with the relationship not sideways. Many women don’t have the time or patience with a guy that is confusing them. I have heard many girls tell me about their dates and one of the biggest issues is why didn’t the guy try to sleep with them or at least kiss them?
This could be the nice guy syndrome coming out in you. A man may think he needs to continue with the picking up and impressing process because he lacks the confidence to close the girl. You may have a closing issue.
To further complicate matters, the guy gets confused when the girl withdrawals her flirting and pulls back. This in turn starts the man trying to pick her up again.
Stop the cycle. She likes you. Change tact. Stop the flirting and start getting more passionate and sexually intimate. Slow things down and take control. She wants to become intimate with you. Now is the time that you should be holding hands, kissing and talking about sexual desires. Ask her stay over. If she says no, not yet, that’s fine. But now she knows your intentions, you want her sexually and not as a friend.
So stop over gaming the girl after you have her on a date. She wants a man who will take control and this means moving the relationship to a sexual level. Many men don't realize what they are doing at this stage. This confuses the woman and she may withdraw. She already likes you...close her.

Gregg Michaelsen is a Platinum EzineArticles Author and the owner of Dating Tips for Guys, Keys To Seduction. Gregg provides online and offline dating tips, coaching, advice and articles for men of all ages and experience. I'm a Squidoo! guy too, feel free to join me over there too!

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