Pass On The Wingman Tonight

Dating Tips for Guys, Keys to Seduction

Think Mustang and Goose. This article talks about the disadvantages of always having your wing man with you.

Yes we love our wingman and would never go out alone... or would we?
We were planning New Year’s Eve. The parlor suite at Mandalay Bay, the head table at Il Bacio in Delray Beach. Every year we make a plan. This year we were staying local in Boston, The Liberty Hotel.
Then suddenly my buddy tells me he’s flying in a girlfriend from South Carolina for the New Year. I had 10 days to get a date. Bummer. I’m screwed I thought.

Maybe not. Ya I could get a date but maybe it’s time to fly solo. You see just about every time I go out I’ve got a wing man. This is fun but there are some negatives. Let me explain.
The wing man, your buddy who knows you the best. He plays off you as well as supports your every pick up move. He compliments you on that crappy, wrinkled rag of shirt you're about to wear.
He’s the guy that you get primed with early in the evening. Why wouldn’t you want him by your side every night? The wing man is great but you need to experience life without him some nights. New Year's Eve was one of those nights for me.

Understand This

The wing man can keep you in your safe zone too long. Women get picked up early. While you’re whooping it up with your buddy, women are getting picked up. Do you know who's picking them up? Yes the pick-up pro.

Ya, you know him, that average looking guy that just walks up to any beautiful chick and sweeps her off her feet. We all hate that idiot.

You see, the pros go out often and they go out alone.

By going out alone you are forced into action. You have two options, pout in the corner or pick up a girl. Also, how many times have you not approached a woman because you didn't want your wingman to give you crap? When you're alone no one knows if you get shot down (no one who knows you personally anyway).

In my case on New Year's eve it was easy. My buddy had a date, this forced me into action. I was not going to watch everyone kiss at the stroke of midnight while I’m a looking like a loser all alone… no way.
Searching for women prospects was better because I wasn’t busy chatting with my wing man or wing men. I new exactly who was single, and who was fun. I watched while everyone came in the door.
I took action and I took action early. In fact by nine thirty I had hit on three girls and by ten, the number four girl was the twenty-five-year-old hottie who took me home. Ah, life is good.

In Conclusion
I love going out with my wing man, don’t get me wrong. But sometimes I feel you need to try going out alone. I realize it’s tough to get motivated, but crank some music, snap open a cold beer and try it.
Too afraid? Try this, meet your buddy later in the night. This way you’re on your own for a while but you know your wing man is on his way. I went down to my place in West Palm two days earlier than my buddies so I could be "That Guy"!

I find picking up women alone can be exciting and easier.

Please visit me and read all the free stuff on my website  Dating Tips For Guys and Ezine Articles